My reflection…

February 15, 2007

Valentine’s Day without my Valentine

Filed under: Personal — Deepti @ 1:17 am

It feels ecstatic when you realise the fact that somebody loves you so much that they are ready to give up any thing and everything for you…Wow!!! I swear I would give my life for such people.. Folks,Iam talking about the unbounded and unconditional love of our parents…
Well I have three Valentines every year !!My mom,my dad and my bro πŸ™‚ .Lucky me!!I always get three big gifts from them πŸ™‚ But this Valentines Day had something different in store for me..I was away from my best Valentine for the first time in my life..My bro…Career demands so much from us 😦

Let me tell you guies about my best Valentine.I am the first person whom he tells all his achivements.I have some of the best moments of the life with my Valentine …Lemme rephrase it,all the moments i was with my Valentine are the best.Those loooooong fast bike rides at 12 in the night without of a sweater hugging him tightly,eating an icecream sitting on the bike by the side of the road when it is raining heavily,going out for shopping for 5-6 hours and coming back home buying …. nothing,going for a 2nd show movie and by the time we reached home,the doors of the apartment were locked so we climbed the wall JUMPED off a wall.The list seems endless.

When I am very happy,he is the first person with whom I share my happiness.There have been instances when I was really feeling low,I just gave a call even at 11 or 12 in the night to my brother to came down to my college to meet me…One Sunday,very recently,I was down with fever and came home from college and I loonged to have an ice-cream(well..lemme confess.I long for an icecream almost 3 times a day..I love it till death πŸ™‚ ) I asked my bro (who was working in his office even on Sunday )to fetch me an icecream when he is back home and he agreed.He dint turnup till 11:30 that night and I slept after waiting for him soo long..Finally he turned up at around 12:30 with a BIGGGGGGGGG Ice cream(By big i mean really BIG πŸ™‚ )..He woke me up and put a spoon of ice cream into my mouth..I asked him what made him come so late..Then he reminded me the fact that it was 12:30 in the night and that he had to search for an icecream parlour for nearly an hour to find an ice cream of my favourite flavour.!!! I was speechless on looking at his the unparalleled unconditional love

I remember those times when I teased him with his female colleagues and friends and the way he gets mad over such issues ..Almost every possesion of mine right from my cellphone to most of my accessories are my brother’s gifts..I remember how my friends used to say–“I wish I had a brother like yours …You are soo lucky.He loves you soo much…” I remembered the way we fight and stop talking to each other for few hours just because he snatched away my pencil or my pen’s cap..Lol!!! Cant help smiling at all those…I remember all those times in the past 1 year the incredible support I got from my brother..He made me realise some of the most important things in life–Not to give importance more than a certain extent to anybody,people are not like the way you want them to be and most importantly nothing is impossible–These are some of the many things which he taught me…Though there is a gap of 5 years between us that never affected our relationship.We are always more like friends rather than a brother and a sister..He is very very protective about me and I just love that……
If there is any person in this world about whom Iam very very possesive then that is my brother.I really get furious when I am with him and any of his friends call him and he starts chatting with them.
I am now somehow getting a feeling that do we really have to lose something to gain something?Wont we be happy if we are settled in a small house with a small job and living with our family.What is life without our parents??Do we really have to be away from them just to gain material pleasures??Does our career demands weigh more than the love for our parents???But then I know that things cant be that way.

Terribly missing my Valentine 😦 Lifez soo unpredictible 😦



  1. Valentine’s Day without a valentine – hmm tell me about it.It was super sweet to read about the great times you have had with your brother.I envy you because you can atleast meet him occasionaly.I guess when you find the love of your life every day and every moment would be a V day.I have never had a Valentine in the real sense of the word but I have a great set of friends who are in the same spot of bother like me.So we kind of share each other’s grief (You know that right).Good luck with next year and keep blogging.

    Comment by Namrata — February 15, 2007 @ 7:41 am

  2. Great post Deeps!
    I love the way its written-straight from ur heart!
    And also for something else!:P

    Comment by Anupama — February 15, 2007 @ 7:56 am

  3. he he … nice post .. kumasavu πŸ˜› …

    I hope u both will be valentines for life πŸ˜‰ …

    Comment by Maruti — February 15, 2007 @ 8:00 am

  4. what can i say … nice post [it deserves much more than that]
    i agree that our parents are our best friends …

    Comment by Shrikant — February 15, 2007 @ 8:19 am

  5. good post ..
    suggestiong for u ..( eppati laagey πŸ˜› )

    You need to learn more about everything, including how to learn more .
    so far so good … but theres lot more coming .. so watch out ..

    Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart …
    Life’s also same … u shud move on with certain things … then u can change them the way u want them to be πŸ™‚

    chocs were grt Tinku …

    Comment by Speed — February 15, 2007 @ 1:34 pm

  6. Sorry i got a bit late in posting a comment on this post and as a result i got to hear that i am jealous of you getting too many comments.. so to exonerate myself from this blame i gotta comment on your blog as quick as i ca do.. Just kidding i ought to comment on ur post since u told me abt ur new post on gtalk.. Like always a good post.. b’fully written showing how much you love your brother but i would just like to say that this was supposed to be a happy and feel good post.. even in such a post few sad lines.. Come out of the saddistic frame of mind.. In other posts these type of words were ok but not in this one. Try to control your frustration sometimes and understand that whole world is not full of cheaters and bad ppl many ppl are good whom you might not have known or might have misconceptions abt them……

    Comment by Himank — February 16, 2007 @ 8:44 am

  7. @Himank: Lol!! I never said that the whole world is full of cheaters nor was it ever implied in any of my posts..Well I know there is a big set of people who love me.You seem to be hinting me indirectly about something which I fail to understand 😦

    Comment by deepti — February 16, 2007 @ 9:13 pm

  8. Hey.. neat post. Actually made me think about my role as a brother πŸ™‚

    Comment by Karan — February 17, 2007 @ 7:17 am

  9. Neat postt. Loved it.. Reminded me of my amazing val day πŸ™‚

    Comment by summu — February 18, 2007 @ 12:53 am

  10. A gud post for all brothers like me…………. Gud keep it up..

    Comment by Saikiran — July 26, 2007 @ 4:22 am

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